I was just talking to our domestic guy here. He'll review my proposed separation agreement before I show it to H. It'll be pretty basic- personal property split, financial accounts split, spousal and child support. I just hope it doesn't ruin Thanksgiving too badly. I'm not delusional- it's ruined, it just remains to be seen how badly... But we shall deal with it like adults- I know I will.
This weekend's plans: Get updated account balances. Sign lease. Look into new checking account/credit card. Finish everybody's mending. Finish fall clean-up in the gardens. Clean the crap out of my bedroom and bathroom drawers. That's probably enough- I think those are good goals, we'll see how far I actually get on those.
My head knows this is the right thing to do, but my heart still feels like I'm making a mistake- we're still family- but I'm working on that, I know I'll get through it with time. I have to get busy when those thoughts start creeping in.
