Sue, I did want to throw my support in though it is a tad late...some of my own mess going around. I know it has taken you a while to get to a place where you feel this is what you need to do. I feel for you but you are taking control of the situation.
I remember how much I hated Ex holding all the cards while we were in limbo. At the time, I didn't think I had any control over any of it. I just wanted to save my family. Now, I think if I had kicked his rear out, filed at least for a legal seperation it would have made a difference. Instead I was going through the gambit...trying to make him "see" what he was doing. Well mistakes I have made.
I am glad that you are sounding strong and standing by your decision. Lots of hugs.
kat
Yoyo, sorry for the hijack. You are sounding great. Maybe I can meet you in Branson sometime. I think that is close to half way.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
