I am just unsure as to what has motivated W to stick around. She was feeling more positive about the R prior to confrontation and then since the confrontation, she is showing signs of staying. Is it possible that she is starting to turn the corner and see what she stands to lose? Did the confrontation tarnish the luster of fantasyland? IDK. I feel like in most cases, the way to know that a WAS is turning the corner is when they apologize and say they want to work on things. My W has not done this but I also know that my W is not the type to do this under many circumstances. We have fun when we are together right now and there is no serious tension between us. It is just that she still seems somewhat detached a bit emotionally.
She was out for a while at a class last night and I told her that I had gone to a coffee shop while she was gone and this seemed to get under her skin a bit. I have been doing the coffee shop thing a lot lately getting dressed up, cologne, etc. Perhaps this is a good thing.
Here is a stack of 2 x 4s, please feel free to swing away if I am getting off track to much. Unfortunately, I am still reacting too much and trying to analyze but I don't understand what is happening right now because we aren't discussing it. If she were still discussing leaving or being nasty to me, I would have a much better idea of how to proceed but this seems ambiguous.
