Getting some PMA and GAL is definitely the trick, we all fall into the same old same old routine so easily! and lets face it our H's didnt fall in love with some dowdy, frumpy fat lass, lounging around in their sweat pants telling themselves that they dont need a haircut and pedicure now their married.
Puppy I agree with you about some of us visiting around a bit more and encouraging some of the ladies that need a boot some where in the lower regions but I do think that they go that way because "birds of a feather flock together" so all the "oh whoa my H is having an affair stick together" and dont necessary visit other categories. My H isnt having an A, but that doesnt mean I'd like some of you A folks to visit me and give advice! Oooh why am I quaking in my boots now Ive stuck my head above the parapit lol!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
I just have to be on my toes to not get sucked in, cuz I know he'll try....
Oh, you can COUNT on it.
Try to think now, ahead of time, how you want to respond, so that you'll do so effectively. Us Hs, are, after all, pretty damned simple, predictable creatures, if you just stopped and thought about it.
Puppy
Yup, you are... He knows I've been physically lonely and, well, he IS a guy... But NOBODY'S gettin' rocked in this world until Rocked gets treated RIGHT!
Getting some PMA and GAL is definitely the trick, we all fall into the same old same old routine so easily! and lets face it our H's didnt fall in love with some dowdy, frumpy fat lass, lounging around in their sweat pants telling themselves that they dont need a haircut and pedicure now their married.
Puppy I agree with you about some of us visiting around a bit more and encouraging some of the ladies that need a boot some where in the lower regions but I do think that they go that way because "birds of a feather flock together" so all the "oh whoa my H is having an affair stick together" and dont necessary visit other categories. My H isnt having an A, but that doesnt mean I'd like some of you A folks to visit me and give advice! Oooh why am I quaking in my boots now Ive stuck my head above the parapit lol!
Rabbit - be careful what you ask for.... Put your helmet on if you are asking Puppy for advice cuz a 2x4 just might come your way... but listen anyway.... he's kinda a smart guy...just don't tell him i told ya so!
I've been reading along, but have not posted to this point.
I would recommmend to you the book "why men love bitches".
some of it goes against DB principals, but most of it is very similar to No More Mr. Nice Guy or Taking Back your nuts... but for women.
You're doing awesome & a woman who is Being In Total Control of Herself (see the first initial of each word their).. is what the book is all about and the resulting power is heady stuff.
You can handle it. Peace Bridge
Thanks Bridge... I am gonna check that out! (along with other recommended books on seduction and flirting... those just might come in handy at this point as well...)
