Every sitch is different. You're going to have to judge for yourself what works best in your sitch. There are some WASs who complain that the LBS was too clingy so in those cases you back off. If your WAS is suffering from depression or is feeling alone, then you lend them support, but not too much.
What would work is if you wrote down what YOU want to happen (a goal). Then jot down what you are going to do to achieve that. Give it a couple of weeks of hard effort and if it doesn't work, then try something different.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
