I have umm'd and aaah'd over this for a few days now.
It feels so wrong to reject the hugs.
But as I have read, a lot of things are counter intuitive.
Tonight I gave the merest touch possible in the hug. She noticed. There was rejection in the 'Ohhh' she made when we hugged. I have to man up and stop the hugging. They are giving me the wrong message, and that we still have some 'connection'.
Regards, Gyn.
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.
