Can I save my marriage?

[Lll54]

That's true. The first and only R talk we had was a week and a half ago and that's exactly what he said. " Why couldn't you be like this before when it mattered? Why change now that we're separated" I didn't really know what to say except that now I'm changing for me and hoping to make my changes everlasting. Whether he wants to be there to share them with me I guess only time will tell. You're right, I'm too fragile to talk "r" right now. I just hope it isn't too late when i feel like I'm finally secure.