The health issues were sudden they arent chronic. I appreciate your input I just feel stuck. I feel like I have been making progress workinng on myself. Then when she came over the other day maybe I got my hopes up and I shouldnt have.
You probably did, and you probably shouldn't have. It happens to all of us.
Originally Posted By: ugetvince
I think I need to continue to move forward but i DONT THINK I will forget that she wasnt here for me and that resentment will not help my situation.
All you do is hurt yourself by holding a grudge.
If you want to work things out with her, you will have no choice but to forgive her at some point.
"Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die." -- Carrie Fisher
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
