Save my marriage to w she is moving on

[TrentC]

K I need to vent. I know I shouldnt feel the way I do and I dont want her pity. Im going thru some very serios health issues and my w knew that I had a follow up appt yesterday. Eight different people have called or email but she has not been one of them. What does this tell me. Kick well im down, Showing her true feelings, why im I hanging on to someone that obviously has no feelings for me!Everytime I think about it I want to scream..

I'm telling you, you are not in a good place to be making final decisions on temporary emotions. Try to work on your health issues (if they are not chronic) and think about this when you are stronger.

Might this be part of her problem with the R? She feels more like a mother or a nursemaid, and less like a wife? Without knowing any specifics of your medical condition, is there any way to be more self-reliant in your treatment?


Making these kinds of requests may feel like pursuing to her. You are demanding that she meet her responsbilities as a wife when she's not even sure she wants to stay married to you. I'd like to think that she would put your R issues aside long enough to help in your time of need, but not everyone can.