Your right Cagz, He probably does not care about anyone but himself right now. You are just an afterthought. That is why right now you have to make him an afterthought. He does not deserve you or any energy you put into him. All your thoughts and energy needs to be put on you and the kids. Love is reciprocal. He is not capable of love.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11