S, you know what I say to you is said with love, right? I know that you have to talk to him because you have young children. I get that. I know you care about him and you are a nice person. I get that, too.
What I dont get is why you would want to keep going round and round with this man at this time. He isnt going to get help because he hasnt hit bottom. He hasnt hit bottom in part because he still has you all caught up in his stuff. He wants your attention and he gets it.
I know it is sad to see a grown man such a mess, especially the father of your children and the man you have been with since you were 18.
But I am not sure where this dance that you two are playing to going to get either of you.
The only thing you can change is you and your reactions to him. The rest is up to him.
