The items we need to discuss are as follows.
1. seperation papers to be signed and witnessed
2. date to sell house.

I have been sitting on both. As per written before in my stitch. She wants to do this she does the leg work.

As also mentioned before I have been living a very dark life towards the WAS. If you need to revisit that please read the last few pages.

Now I know that WAS thinks I am dating or at least getting out there now and testing the waters.

I also know that I am in no rush to sign papers nor sell the house until the spring.

My goals of busting the divorce and ending the affair are still on going.

I was wondering if I could have some advice here. From those who I have interacted with and from those with experience here.

I see that I have 4 choices here.

1. Ignore.
2. Contact via email
3. Contact via phone
4. Contact via face to face.

The week of Nov 16th will be 2 months since Plan B kicked in. Where I only contacted once. Which was that I had a buddy and dog staying here.

I really do not know if this is the time to step out from Plan B.

I know I can continue with the ignore.

I do not know if I can do a face to face. Its been along time between seeing each other. But it would be a good test to see how far I have came. But it could also knock me back a few steps.

A phone call would also be the first conversation in a long time as well. A few weeks.

I am undecided on what path I will choose here but would really like some advice here.

My boundaries would be no R talk. Keep it to business and validate if any thing else comes up.

I will be taking her sister to the hospital on monday and spending the day with her so any reply, if any will occur next week some time after that. As no doubt WAS sister is going to prod me for the day on what I have been doing and how I feel. Sisters will be sisters afterall.

Thanks in advance here for your suggestions.

I am going back to my cold and planning out a dinner for a few friends for tomorrow night. And maybe a good run today.

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