Do not bring up the "assignment". It will come across as pushy, pursuant, and everything you don't want it to be. It will most likely cause an argument or fight. At the next MC appt., your counselor will most likely ask about it and at that point, you can just be honest about it. MC is definitely worth it, if not for your M, then for yourself. If your W is not in it, to work on things, than maybe you would be better off just doing IC sessions though. The fact that she even could be a sign that she may be willing to do some work.
