The fact these tests exist at all is trouble. Two confident, comfortable, happy people have no reason to test one another or play games. There are enough tests outside the relationship (work, money, life). When the team starts playing against each other instead of the opponent, the ball game is over.
Like I said, I don't miss it at all.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
