I never thought I would be here

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Tried the "I have some thinking to do" approach... that didn't work as she keeps asking the question.

All right.
"I'm busy right now with XXX. Can we talk later."
"I told you, I need my space can you please respect that. You have always been like this pressure, pressure, pressure."
"We dont need to talk about anything, if you want one so bad do what you want. I am going out to tonight. let me get ready alone. and see you later."

I always liked, "Please don't be so clingy and needy. It's not attractive. I've said that I'll get back to you. Please respect that and await my decision."
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