I think I need some advice on my current state of affairs.
I don't want to stay in this holding pattern for very long so looking for suggestions as to how to proceed. Current update: W is seemingly planning to stay for now but nothing is being said of the A. W is not overtly pursuing the A since the confrontation (no late nights out anyway). I wonder if she is taking stock so that she can make a decision or if I have just driven the A further underground. If she was preparing to leave prior to confrontation, then that should have just made it easier for her to leave or am I not looking at this correctly? What does it mean that she has stayed for now?
I went to my local bookstore last night and read some of the book "After the Affair" which had some good discussion about what a wayward needs to consider when conflicted about staying versus leaving. I am pretty sure that asking her to read this is not Good idea right now but I want to get this discussion back on the table in a contructive way if possible so that we don't stay in this limbo.
Could use some suggestions with what is best to do in this situation
