I have been walking on eggshells for a year afraid to say anything that might be a problem. Well that didn't work as soon as I asked for my small change I'm dumped again.
So I'm growing a set. Not in a mean or cruel way just "this is who I am like it or leave it your choice. I have done stupid stuff so have you. Let's work on this and make it great.
Hmmm this all still sucks but that new attitude just mentally makes me able to cope today.