Tried the "I have some thinking to do" approach... that didn't work as she keeps asking the question. But I am confronting her on this "friend" issue after work today... You know after reading the past few posts and thinking the more I realized she has disrespected me, and I'm not going for that sh**! I guess I was too blind, too nice, and too focused on trying to be positive to see that. And the more I think about it the more it gets my blood boiling. So my biggest priority is to vent all of the rage out before I get home, and call the bullsh** flag on her. I love her but I am not her doormat. I have done my best to respect her. She recently lost weight after she was diagnosed with a medical condition and once we got her on the diet based on her medical condition I thought she was looking hot. I have loved her no matter what she looked like, and I told her that. But I know then she wasn't happy with herself and whatever I would say or do wouldn't convince her otherwise (while she still had the weight). She loses the weight gets extra attention from guys, and then lets it get to her head and wants to go this route! WTF ?!?! I don't need this s***!
At least you admitted that your "have some thinking" approach didn't work.
You have to appear as if you have made the decision, thinking suggests there is time left, ample time to fart around and then ask forgiveness for mistakes, etc.
