Can I save my marriage?

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Actually that's what a girlfriend of mine had mentioned to me last night. Yes we were intimate a week and a half ago. Quite intimate. He initiated it all. He initiates everything, even just simple hugs. He initiated pushing me into a corner in the kitchen yesterday subtly flirting with me and getting so close that he was about to kiss me. So my girlfriend suggested maybe initiating something. Next time he gets close to me, take it to the next level and see what he does. If he is flirting and asking open ended questions looking for certain answers, and going in for hugs, and the other day he went in for a cheap feel, then maybe I should do it as well. She thinks that maybe he feels like he's doing all the work and not getting a response. So ya, next time I have the chance I'm going to react differently than I have been which is kind of cold to his intimacy because I'm scared to give him too much. But we'll see, its my new experiment. Maybe he will like it coming from me for once.