And now everyone knows why later in the night after she made the comment, that my response to her the next time she ask about the divorce is "That I feel I'll be better off!"
Depends. if she starts hanging out with these guys and coming home after midnight. maybe. yes.
What other things can't you stand about her?
Right now, I'd leave it at, "I have some thinking to do. I need some space right now if you dont mind." And begin acting very similar to how she is acting. maybe get yourself one of those texting cell phones and start going out dressed up in the middle of the week. Agree with her that this is not working out and suggest maybe she needs to move out, this isnt working! Rather than arguing divorce, I think you would be more successful displaying decisiveness and confidence that if it did happen it wouldnt phase you emotionally and that someone is ready to take her place.
