Over the Shock and GALing 6

[JTJ]

In my case, both reflections are a bit painful. If I look at Mrs. T's actions toward me in the past few years, I see little to no love. Likewise, however, when I turn the flashlight on myself. For many years in our M, I declared myself to be in love, I said I loved her, but if I look at my actions during those years...not hateful, not mean, but certainly not loving. In fact, even during the past year I can point to instances where I was feeling love, but my actions were not loving.
Sad how we treat each other...

Thinker how can you be a leader and turn this around. Empathy and Compassion may be a 180 for you. Measure your response to your wife's email about why you didn't call her. What got you to this point won't get you out. Be a Leader not not a follower. Compassion and Empathy. Remember God doesn't Love you any more than he loves your wife. I'm praying for you, your wife and your family. How would your friends react out side of this online community to the question your wife proposed to you? Take a deep look inside yourself. You are headed in the right direction. Peace

JJ