So I really was already to put the txts aside and move on and I spoke to H tonite and it just poped into my head:

"So what was with that txt you got on saturday night H, whats going on"? His reply "We have been separated since March thats whats going on, and as soon as I come home next week we will split everything up and be done with it once and for all - anything else? Me " Take a long hard look in the mirror once you get off the phone, then look into your eyes and really see your soul cos you are going to have to look at that for the rest of your life"

H text me an hour later to say he is coming home tomorrow from work.

What on earth do I do now????