ok here is some quick clarification: - when you and your hubby originally started dating, did you spend alot of time talking about relationships and making them work?
Allow to be so bold as to answer that for you (and correct me if I'm wrong, please do):
.... ummm NO! You probably didn't talk about relationships that much and you certainly didn't do anything that resembled working on a relationship. You dated, you had fun, you looked forward to seeing each other, you probably did little things for each other every now & then, shared meals together, did things together, etc. And none of that probably involved working on a relationship or talking about your relationship. You just did what you did and it was fun.
So what's wrong with that?
Why do you have the need to have these R talks? What are you going to get out of it?
Security? Maybe but you're not at that point yet.
Let it be, use this time to enjoy each other again, take it slow, allow him to be comfortable with you again and allow yourself a break as well, just enjoy the moment. You don't know what tomorrow will bring so stop worrying about it, just enjoy today.
I'm telling you, it's taking alot of personal control on my part not to drop the F-bomb at the end of everyone of these F!@#$%* sentences!
