You bring up a very good point that I also went over w/Jody yesterday: I need to tell her "no" as well or she'll continue to think she's in constant control of my life and plans.
That is my next step. Tuesday night was the last time we communicated and she sent me a text saying "I just wanted to say hi and let you know that I miss you."
So, I'm still on her mind and in her thoughts. Now, I have to continue my independence and not be there for her whenever she wants me b/c that shows dependence on my part.
Thus, she'll eventually be forced to make a decision and get off the fence. Even if she decides her decision isn't to be w/me, at least I'll have some "closure" and a finality of sorts so I'll be able to move forward.
