Yes I have stopped contacting her because I realized that I don't want to be her, I want to be me and that is the best feeling in the world!!!! I am Catholic and just within the last couple of weeks I have really found God and that has helped me so much with all of this knowing that no matter what I am going to be more then ok.
My depression is gone...I am happy all the time with exceptions of course:) I just wanted to know from someone else that this is normal, because sometimes I feel like he is withdrawing more because I am acting like my life will go on no matter what happens in our marriage.