She has mentioned that her friend is coming back into town in a few weeks (guy) and if its cool if she hangs out with him. I told her to "Knock herself out and have fun". Now I believe this is EA #2 in a period of the past 3 weeks. (The first went sour apparently because the guy didn't want to be a home wrecker.) She then made the comment "So can I sleep with him?" (now mind you she kind of had that joking tone, but there is no telling) I of course gave her a sharp look, you know the one that says "Hell no!". On this notion I am thinking about taking a stand on this one and telling her that as long as we are in the same house and until things are final that isn't going to fly. Any input on how to handle a situation on this?
She's testing you. I'd suggest you look at her incredulously, and just shake your head in disgust, mutter "Simply unbelievable," and then walk away, saying "I need to go get a workout in," (or some other GAL activity).
Do NOT give her permission to have an affair!
Another tack would be to say "Look, you're an adult woman, and I have no desire to control you even if you could. You need to look yourself in the mirror at the end of the day, and your behavior is between you and God. But if you're looking for my APPROVAL, you're not going to get it."
