Well, it seems my wife is pretty persistent on asking how I feel about the whole thing, and asks if I agree with the decision. Of course I'm thinking I'm not okay with it, but I tell her I've been thinking about it and trying to figure things out. Which of course she persists and saying I'm beating around the bush and it's driving her crazy. Later last night it clicked that I am going to tell her, "You know I've been thinking, and I think I'll be better off." Would this be the way to go? In truth I am better off no matter what, because I will be stronger from this and find who I was and be a better man (it will still hurt), and 2 if this does turn around I will be a better man and get the girl back. Any thoughts?
I think that's good. I would add in something, like "Look, I think it's chickenbleep what you did, and that you're running away from the marriage rather than working on it, but I've been doing some thinking and I've decided that I also don't want to be with someone that would do that to me, so maybe this is for the best."
