Although I am pleased with these developments, I am a bit nervous when I consider what MC will entail. I suspect there is still a lot of pain, resentment and anger in both W and I that has not yet been uncovered. But, at least there is some emotion there. And, if we stand any chance of working through our issues, we have to get this stuff on the table, as painful as it may be.
GIMA, MC will involve pain, resentment and anger, however this is all part of the healing process. I have gone down this path and my W who said when she dropped the bomb that she would never love me again. Now, 3 months later and several sessions with an MC her tune has completely changed. This past weekend she kissed me for the first time, said she loved me and has said that if we work hard, we will be okay. I don't think we would have gotten to this place without getting to the deep routed problems that was difficult for each of us to talk about . But with the help of the MC, we were able to open up and deal with these things.
Good luck
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Me: 39 W: 34 S:6 M:11 years T: 13 Years B: 07/2009 Possibly BUSTED: 11/2009
