I miss the emotional connection to my W much more than the physical so I am also an exception to the rule. In any case, PDT is giving wise advice to operate under the assumption that EA/PA is ongoing. I think the key is to be prepared mentally for whatever is your worse-case scenario so that if it comes to light, you will be able to handle it without backsliding. I was prepared mentally in my case so when I found out, it still hurt but I didn't fall apart.
