Lately, I have had to cancel my plans because H comes up with something he has to do at the last minute. Another one of my issues with "no notice". I have lost my mojo.
Why? H's problems are not your problems right now. Obviously, that is unless the problem is really one involving your kids. Even then, if it is something H said he would do, hold him to it.
We all go through times (many in fact) when we are just fed up, tired, angry, whatever) through this process. That's b/c this process IS hard. No one said it would be otherwise.
So, you need to take a break for a few days. Then take it. Your M issues aren't going anywhere - they'll be there when you come back.
Focus on filling your own love buckets. What do you like to do? Go do it. Just give yourself a break from your M for a little while. That's ok.
