Airwolf. You are losing perspective. Look at how much time you spent on a birthday card and 2 gift cards! Do you put this much effort into getting the best mortgage rate possible? At the end of the day its a card that gets tossed and 2 gift cards. It was that before, as it is now, and will be afterwards. Do not pursue, reason, chase, beg, plead or implore! You can mask it anyway you want to yourself but you just broke rule #1. Back up! copy off the messages from your phone so you have a record of them. Then delete them from your phone.
Do not reply. Always remember that right now your the bad guy who ruined her life. So you can either agree with that and play her game. Or you can back away and let her have the anger and bitterness. Be a stone wall.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
