Is this the end of my marriage?

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I'm sure she did after seeing all her pictures, etc. out again. But, wasn't that what you were really hoping when you put everything out again?

No it wasn't at all. I know this isn't her home and told me before she left she would never come back to it as it has too many unhappy memories. I also only put one picture up, at the top of the stairs. It was our wedding picture. I know it's still one too many, but I didn't put all the other pictures back.

I do wonder what signals it send to her too when I have sent her separation agreement paperwork and then stick the pictures up and my ring back on. The ring and pictures were a mistake. For me, as it just didn't feel right after only 24 hours, but also for those signals they send her.

Women apparently like men who are unavailable to them - I'm far too available and broadcast it at every available opportunity.

You can read what people have to say to you and you can read other threads.....but don't "act" on anything before thinking it over a few days, okay? I'm concerned that you are too easily talked into things.

I actually do little else at the moment but read this forum and other threads!

I don't feel I'm too easily talked into things generally. I feel I am being too easily lead at the moment in this as I really have no clue what to do so I think x, y or z may be worth a try.

I have just read a thread for example where somebody recommends ONLY doing LRT if there are period where you are or don't talk. Always keep the communication channels open if they are there ... our communication channels are there maybe they should be kept open. Then again maybe no. I am just very confused on what to do but I won't make any decisions until I get some responses, read the DR / DB book again (off to start now) and digest things.

I actually though of explaining away the pic in the house to my W by text or on Saturday when she arrives but then again, that will make things look even worse so I have decided just to ignore it.

As I said before, I felt so strong up until yesterday. I am very disappointed that I fell apart.