And to be honest, last night did feel a little like she had never left. She acted like she still lived there.
I'm sure she did after seeing all her pictures, etc. out again. But, wasn't that what you were really hoping when you put everything out again?
Anyway, I would advise you to do nothing for a few days and give yourself a chance to rest. Emotional exhaustion is worse than physical any day. You can read what people have to say to you and you can read other threads.....but don't "act" on anything before thinking it over a few days, okay? I'm concerned that you are too easily talked into things.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!