Separated

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Update: I have been doing the 180 since Tuesday and have seen some inquisitive responses from my WAW. We have a split custody arrangement and I had to rent a place with a single guy and I could tell she was none too happy about that as she thought I would be suffering living with my dad. We start the separation on Sunday with a week on/ week off nesting arrangement for the kids.

I have been positive, non-pursuing, not answering the phone on the first try,... Really all I can do is be there if she wants me to be there. Otherwise I am living my life as a happy person because I cannot control her feelings. What I am hoping is she will see what will be missed if we divorce. A beautiful family, a lakefront home, kids in our house everyday as opposed to every other week.

Either way I have to be me so I can prepare to move on if it happens. We have 6 months until the divorce is final and that is quite a long time. All I can do is pray and be as positive as I can.