Needing Direction

[awest1217]

You are showing her, which is what I mean. You are doing great, but until X is willing to let go of the bitterness she is feeling towards you, nothing you do will help any. THat is what is happening with me. When H came home for 2 weeks, we got along pretty well and I was a model wife, like he had asked, but it did not make him happy because he is so bitter towards me, his parents, and many others. I am not why towards me, but he is.

I would say right now do not pursue, but watch for her to open the door. She may not pursue you like you would pursue her so be watchful and patient.