Ok Im sorta in a "cake eating" position, H has done the panic thing and has come up to stay for three days, things have been lovely and yes some "cake eating" has occurred. But some very normal loving things, like him putting his laptop down for a cuddle and snuggling into me when I was cooking for him, and him validating my fear of him setting up a life in his new place, and saying he isnt thinking like that!

He's going back home this weekend as he has commitments and also he's run outta clothes and things! But when he said he'd be off tomorrow, he quickly said with enthusasiam and a smile but I'll be back next week! Now of course if he doesnt he's been cake eating and he's gonna get the royal order of the push, but if he is open and honest and starts to move forward in a sorta piecing manouvre, what do I do?


Last edited by Lost Rabbit; 11/05/09 12:21 PM.

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