That's where we differ A&K. I've read the descriptions of SP's wife's behavior and decided long ago that I could not relate to this woman. I can understand a person who under severe stress experiences a very rare freak out - the human mistake, followed by regret. But that doesn't match SP's description. Mrs. SP seems to have some kind of wicked witch entitlement fantasy. Maybe I just wasn't born that wealthy. Last I checked we didn't have any royalty here. She gets no understanding from me.
