Whoa there cowboy. I think I made a valid point. Just because your batsh*t crazy wife went off the deep end doesn't mean there aren't grains of wisdom you may want to examine.
And no where did I infer that the female is in the right or wrong in this paradigm just trying to illuminate (and as the female, I am bound to relate to female, if not completely, to some relevant degree).
There is a back story. There is her story. Or you were just married to the batsh*t craziest woman for umpteen years and were victimized and abused the whole time.
I don't think you got my point. I almost don't think you want to.
Exasperation as a theme is so prevalent for women and I think that part of it is thinking/assuming that a topic has been thoroughly covered when it hasn't.
And I'm also not talking about "literal" questions about weight, etc. I am talking about issues relating to child care, finances, family time, sex...I think we (in general) approach these in very dramatic but broad form and are baffled that it doesn't translate into the more specific events, decisions, actions etc.