Not sure what to do

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Stu, I wouldnt be surprised if your therapist doesnt want to answer the more personal questions about their M. Its a big debate within biomedical ethics if its ok to talk about your personal experiences with clients. So maybe you could ask that question in a different way, or ask questions that might give you an idea.

I do agree that the questions about favorite marital progams and authors is a good one. Ask them if they are familiar with Gary Chapman, or Michelle Wiener Davis, or Mort Fertel. Um, Les and Leslie Parrott are some pretty well written M counselors. I cant think of any other ones off the top of my head.