Lately I’ve just been observing W and I definitely see 2 personalities, nice W and mean & bitchy W. At the moment I’m not reacting to either of them so there is no walking on eggshells for me just a kind of stability in the mood around the house. I think it’s a bit like dropping the rope and focusing on other things. I don’t think there is anything I can do to change W.
Lanzo
Boy Lanzo this sounds allot like my sitch except my W’s two personalities are Nice Wife and I don't care wife... But like you I a trying not to react to either one. Even when she is doing something nice I just kind of let it go. I read an article in “Surviving Your Spouse's Midlife Crisis” and it says (as they say in DBing)
“It is human nature to want what we can’t have. Why should your spouse put any thought into a relationship with you if you are constantly reminding him/her how much you love them or want to save the marriage?”
Detaching/Galing/DBing…I guess it is all the same. Keep on course buddy WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS…..
Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
