Not Me...Ever part 2

[Deep]

Beautiful, Serenity ...! The more help and support you get in focusing on you, the better.

The kids though, I know it's hard but you have to try your best not to let negativity taint them any more than it's already going to do. Even if things go further south, they deserve to have the best relationship with each parent that is possible.

I'll never forget what I posted in my sitch, when my D9 told me "Papa, if you guys get divorced, I'm staying with you." and "Mummy ... mummy is selfish and only thinks about what she wants." Talk about conflict, the selfish part of me going "aha! there you go!", another part mourning for W as she really is a great mom actually, and most of all the shock and sadness for D to even have to hear it from her. W is still having to do repair work on her relationship with D, even today.