Hi...I'm in the same sort of boat...it is sooo hard for me to resist opportunity to see H when it arises but I'm learning that it usually isn't good...turns ugly..into R talk (probably because I'm so hard wired to feel)...and new drama pops up every day that test me as well....but I have been learning to resist txt..(I think how txt are so detremential when it comes to R)...and what I've learned is..the more I resist, the more H pursues but...then we are back to square 1 because once H pursues I have hope...sighhh
I agree, it is hard, but never NEVER get into R talk. I mess up my DBing left and right, but I manage to stay ticked off enough that R talk is the last thing I want to do. LOL
I think we are all hard wired to feel, but bring the feelings here. These fine folks have talked sense into me many times.
