Hi, I just meant simply that if your W had felt you were emotionally unavailable, unsupportive, and distant in your M, plunging headlong into DBing, detaching (even further!), 180's (which may be 180s to you, but confirmation of her fears to her), may not always the greatest help.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
