I need a new name, VH. I'm starting to feel more and more like this is his problem, not mine.
So what I did; pick a pseudonym. (No, Trent is nowhere near my actual name!) That way, you can use it both now and when things are getting better.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement