Hi Ready2Change, thanks so much for taking the time to respond!
I plan on focusing on me and making real changes. My thoughts, my words and my actions (especially my reactions) are the first changes I want to make. I plan on checking out some of the other books that you recommend. As much as I want my marriage back - if it does work out, I definitely want it to be a happy, lasting one and that would require some permanent change on my part.
I plan on using this forum this time to help with this.
Thank you again for your response.
Me - 33 Him - 37 2 Children (D-8, S-5) Married 04/28/01 He Left 12/03/05 Updated Story