did you get apology? Remorse? Regret? Hesitation?

[forward]

Interesting range of responses. I think it will take a while before STBXH is not so angry at me. As it is now, I haven't seen anything from him. Guilt, maybe. But not remorse or regret.

I lean against saying anything at this point, based on responses here. I think dark is good for me now, healing. I have been doing more things on my own and gradually meeting new people and making new friends.

Today I realized that I spent most of the day not thinking about STBXH.