Hi Britt, yes, I have a H who is "confused" to say the least...he has been coming around lately and make small talk about future with "us" but next moment says he's buying a house. WTF?? It's a tough road...my H has been gone for 4 months and the longer he is gone..the stranger he becomes in some ways..however we have been intimate several times but I feel like he's trying to please me so I don't go looking for it elsewhere which is totally not my style (been with H for 10 yrs. and prior bf for 7 and I'm 36 so do the math) but then again I think maybe I did miss out and I should go have fun but honestly, I want to be married..I have 3 kids and would like more..it's so hard and confusing but I just think positive thoughts every day and it's been good!! Just rememeer that it's not that easy to erase years of your life...especially the older you get
