Hey, Britt. I am certainly not the poster child for patience, DBing and GALing lately, but I have been going through my marriage issues for almost 7 years now. All of this time hasn't been as bad as it is right now. I will say that it is ALWAYS better when I am able to detach and release my expectations, not being rude, but focusing on just myself and my boys.

You will go through times that are rougher than others, but I agree with all the fellas that have been chiming in on your sitch, you are expecting too much too fast. You have made amazing progress! Don't undo it now!

Go to that party looking as hot as you can with NO EXPECTATIONS from your H. Enjoy yourself and if he is like a moth to the flame- GREAT If not, you still had a good time.

Take care.

BIM


BIM
M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11

my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127