Is this the end of my marriage?

[sandi2]

You are deceiving yourself. You should have stuck to the plan.

When you go back an re-read your posts you see just how fogged out "you" are! In the same post you said you loved her but knew you were not in-love with her. Then you decide that taking all the wedding things down out of sight was you "reacting" to what she had done and that it wasn't about you! That is your problem! You are making it all about her instead of making it about you. The reason I suggested that you take all the pictures, etc. out of sight was so that you would stop acting like some love-sick high school boy and man-up and show how you had taken back the power in your life.....and start by making that "your" house instead of hers. But you just didn't have the b@lls for it and try to turn it all around and even get religious on us. And wasn't it one of your posts that you said something about "if it came to you having to use the LRT"........what or when do you think that would be? The time for the LRT is BEFORE the D....not afterward. From what you have described about your W, I don't think she will find you one bit attractive the way you are going about this. She has you so wrapped around her little finger--and all she has to do is come over with something funny to tell you.....and your in hog heaven! You are pitiful. Don't you know that she saw right through you and could see how "needy" you are? That does not appeal to a woman who lives with OM...who apparently had second thoughts about them living together. Maybe you should take a few hints from him!

You don't have to try and convince us that you are not expecting anything. But just so you'll know, we are not as confused as you seem to be. You have set yourself up for a huge disappointment.

Oh, just for the record.....about the wedding album and the difference in that and a cake........She was a "bride" and those were pictures of her wedding. Even if she gets D, she wanted to have pictures of when she was a bride. But, she had no use whatsoever for that cake with the tradition attached..........(D.A.M.)