Journey- Sorry for not responding to your other post- for some reason, although I "watch" my own posts, I wasn't getting e-mailed when someone posted to them. I find there are so many posts on these boards that if something isn't right on the first page of the forum, I don't go sifting through the other pages to find it- even my own stuff. :-(
I'll respond more later.
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed